I had an amazing idea for a way to have a final discussion on the themes found within the book we have been reading in 7th Grade. The Outsiders is a coming-of-age novel written by S.E. Hinton set in the 60s when gangs started to become extremely popular, and racism was in its prime. The subculture of teen violence was huge in the 60s; so huge that the baby boomers that were involved with the violence outweighed the desperate adults that were just trying to maintain some type of order in their towns.
The two gangs in The Outsiders were the Greasers (poor teens trying to prove themselves) and the Socs (rich kids who get little to no attention from their parents). I couldn't help but begin to see some connections to the Greasers and the Socs as I observed the interactions I saw between my students. Seeing that the Greasers (missionary kids) and the Socs (Bolivian rich kids) fell almost perfectly in line with the story. I realized that for some, this story might hit a little closer to home than I might have expected. I didn't realize, however that it would hit THIS close to home.
So sticking with the gang element, I decided that we were going to have a rumble. Before you all get nervous and start picturing 12 and 13 year olds running around the room with knives, guns, and shanks in their hands, this was a controlled and highly symbolic rumble. Instead of using the normal weapons, I decided to embrace the theme of prejudice, appearance, and differences. I had no idea how this spark of an idea would turn out, but nonetheless, I was excited.
When we started reading the book, I formed them into reading groups. In these groups, I had the students give themselves a gang name, symbol, colors, and something they were "known" for. They loved this exercise, and were able to earn points for their gang throughout the unit. So the last day of the unit, in line with the book, it made sense to have a rumble.
I handed out sheets of paper, all in their gang colors, and had them write down one insult (keeping it PG) that they had received or heard someone receive here at SCCLC. After they had finished this, I told them to crumple the paper up into a ball and that would become their weapon. I divided up the gym into four corners and allowed them to play dodgeball using the paper balls, and upon finishing, instructed them to grab a ball near them, read it, and return to class so we could discuss the words written.
Some of the things written on those sheets of paper were shocking to say the least. There were students' names, awful language, racist words. Everything you could imagine was written. I was shocked, but not shocked; because having experienced it myself, Middle School is cruel. This is when everything was taken from my hands and the Holy Spirit decided to take over.
I ended up having an incredible dialogue with the 7th graders about the bullying that they see taking place, and are sometimes involved in at our school. It was eye opening for some, it was personal for others, and it was convicting for all of them. By the end of the discussion 3/4 of my class was in tears and I don't really remember what I said, but I was crying as well. I know that the Holy Spirit was moving to work through these kids. Seeing these young kids hugging eachother and loving eachother in this way was one of those moments that you never forget. One of those moments that God uses to remind you of the reason you do the things you do.
At the end of the class period, I gave the students another sheet of paper. I asked them to use the same weapon to write an apology for the things they had said to others in hate or with the purpose of hurting them. I told them I wasn't going to make them give it to the person or give them a grade, it was purely for them to be honest with themselves and see how much hate can be shown through words. I was shocked when I recceived a letter myself.
God is doing some incredible things here at the SCCLC, and I am blessed every second I can be part of it. When I first read The Outsiders, I hated it, and didn't even want to teach it. Now its going to be one of those books that I'll never forget.
Please say a special prayer for the 7th graders as you read this. God isn't finished working in those kids, and I know that eventually there will be reconciliation in the hearts of every single one of them.
Rachel
Wow, Rachel. This is such a powerful exercise and sounds like the kids have learned a very awesome life lesson. I have to say that it brought back memories of my childhood - as you know, I was one of many bullies in our school (not proud of that). Maybe if a teacher spent time like you did teaching about it back then; maybe things would have been different. I lived with guilt for years of things I did in my middle/high school years. However, God uses all of our life experiences for our good and His glory.
ReplyDeleteI can see how your last few months are leaving a huge impact there. I must say, this was probably my favorite blog -- so proud of you! Love, Mommy